Genunine fan?

What is to be a fan of an actor/actress?
Is it becoming biased?
Or they watch anything just because that person is being cast in that movie?
It is obsession. I guess.
What is actually meant by a fan or liking merely! Is it just carried away by what do you call charisma or acting skills?  Becoming-a-fan idea should come from with in , that has to be your thought, isn't it? It should not be by your surrounding environment of pals or mates. I have seen people . They persuade themselves by behaving as the particular actor's fan. Of course, even i went through that.

In school my group friends are all fans of pawan kalyan(telugu movie star!). so did I.
I thought then, if i had had friends who are ntr(Anti-actor) fans, i would have become one of those,is not it quite simple? One must think of his interests. May not be stated, but self realizing  is good, else one can be carried away by anything.

This quote is a good one- If you do not stand for something, you'll fall for anything.

Being a fan doesn't mean biased. The reason behind may be - one can't accept the fact/ or they went too far away so that they can't make up again or they 've become mentally aged that caused laziness to their brains.

I've to learn  and be open .

Power not to Give-up

The power of not giving up that matters. I said to my friend don't give up soon, i am not advising you but sharing what I have experienced.

You know, I think kinda I give up too early. So, better you don't give up so soon like me.

He(my friend) posed me a question that is rather typical . If you know that you are going to lose anyway, then what will you do then?

Still won't give up , huh?

 I froze with thinking there.

Then a memory of naruto episode came across in my mind!

 When he fought neji, he was not thinking whether he wins or loses. He was thinking of the next plan, his next move or rather next attack. Everybody knew he was going to lose back then, He didn't give up because he never thought of losing .

That's what the difference I guess. When it comes to me , my neurons begin thinking like what happens when i lose .

So, automatically some neurons won't work for me to plan the next move which is important. I should not think like that.

 I keep on thinking of the next step , which has to be better implemented by me than implemented by yesterday-me. This one of ways to get Power not to Give-up.