Questions

Asking right questions is more important than worrying for right answers.
The Questions  I ask direct my thinking. And this thinking process is very important. So, to get the right questions, we have to ask more questions.

To ask more questions, our thinking has to be  divergent rather than convergent.

So which way it is better.

Is it to ask one question at a time?

or

is it better to write down all questions at once and think about them later?

 But, writing all the questions at once has the possibility in limiting the time for divergent thinking. And also, after thinking about one question and arriving at the very reasonable answer has the possibility of stopping there and not asking enough questions.

I think I've to follow negative empiricism rather than a positive one, because it is easy to get confirming evidence rather than dis confirming one. Some times dis-confirming evidence is the best. It is difficult to prolong the quest for dis-confirming evidence.

Still, I've to adopt this method of thinking. How? Being skeptical?

 Skeptical empiricism is the good way.

This needs to preserved :D

"When I saw you, I was lost.
I wondered you were a ghost.
When I befriended you, I was reborn.
But I din't know that you have so much scorn.
She parted from Me.
I realized She took away most of ME.




Neither poetic nor creative. It's just framed for the last sentence I felt real. As for the rhymes, we can get anything we need from the web. 

Please stop showing that much love on me !!

My friend came to stay over with me for a few days. He's sensitive, talks too less. Like I was previously( don't know whether I'm still).

I was helping in some situation and I was just showing genuine not over care.Then he said to me that made my senses on " Don't show love on me, I can't handle"

What is this feeling? When I heard those words, I felt like I was seeing my own reflection. How can one make that opinion?

Take me. I too had been rejected. So, may be he also got rejected. The intensity of that feeling is so potent  i guess.

Did they reject me? May be . May be not. Because they haven't told me their opinion about me . I'm sensitive.May be this was the very reason creating all this nonsense. Of course it is nonsense. I used to keep thinking and judging about what others were thinking about me. Famous Dale Carnegie said- Don't think of what others might think about you if you are going to do something. Instead do something that makes others to think good about you.

The hatred is such a high intensive thing. It makes us to make our own judgements. And I assumed and believed things to be true until I face that are not.

I've learnt that I should prevent myself from showing anger which basically anger because of myself. My friend told me that " He is the person who easily gets angry is the one who can't solve his own problems/baggage.So much confusion.

Carrying the guilt for long is not good. May be somethings are bound to happen. And not valuing oneself is also not good. I was there once. Some authors' books changed my thoughts. I started believing in myself and I have value.