Monday, April 23, 2012

Relationship

I felt disturbed. Something pinching me from inside. And its compulsive.

I would have felt down hearted if I had not asked that money owed to me, again. Why couldn't I do that asking before? May be I'm shy. I used to feel like its prohibited dont-cross-the-lines. May be I'm that kind of a person who doesn't know how to say no.

I think I know now. I misunderstood the very basics of relationship between a relationship and money.
A relationship is combination of understanding and a mixture of emotions. I must not value it with money. But, what do the authors mean when they say investing in a relationship. How can I invest? I must invest love. As I have learned from Ms.Preeti shenoy(author), a relationship depends or a bond depends on how much love you give in. No matter what, I must express my love, in what way comforts me as possible.

Then, Time, Energy and Money are the available tools for showing love. Money is just a tool of showing love. I must not give whole picture to this tool alone. What is important is my love-showing-tactics.

I'm feeling good that I've asked my friend more frankly. He responded generously.

I can build relationship only by talking to that person not by imagining things. When will I change?

Oh, yes I can measure the strength of a relationship. It depends mainly on how much frank or open you are to that person in your context.

Talk and solve the problem. I'll change.